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As soon as a thirty day period we do a presentation in Columbus, Ohio for our neighborhood Passionate Spark ~ Lasting Love group and we want to share an idea with you here that we're going to talk about in-depth in our next meeting that we think can really help you in your relationships no matter where you live.

Last weekend, when we were planning out next meeting (happens on November 28) in Columbus we came up with the topic for the next meeting and it's ...(be sure to join us if you're in our area)

"I'm Right--You're Right"

Which of course is the exact opposite creed of what most people live by which is "I'm RIGHT--You're WRONG."

We are amazed at how easy it is to fall into the "I'm Right--You're Wrong" trap--and how destructive it is to your relationship when you do!

Recently, one of our coaching clients had a huge awakening around this idea--and the changes he's made because of this awakening are saving his marriage.

Without going into details about his situation, let's just say that the bottom line was that he became so tied up in proving he was "right" every time there was a difference between him and his wife, he kept pushing her further and further away from him.

And that wasn't what he wanted!

In fact, every time they had a difference of opinion, he ended bringing up every "mistake" she'd made in the past and as he put it "hitting below the belt."

They were arguing more often and the more he tried to make himself "right," the more she
withdrew and acted in ways he didn't like.

They were definitely stuck in a damaging loop that they couldn't seem to get out of.

How have they gotten out of this loop to create a much better, happier relationship?

If you can relate in any way to the "I'm Right--You're Wrong" loop, here are some ideas that helped our coaching client make some big changes in his relationship...

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